Here are 5 myths that you might have heard about disability:
1) We can't be independent. We can all be independent in our own unique way. It looks different for each individual. Some live on their own, some are able to feed themselves, some can drive, some know how to do a daily routine well, etc., and while some of these may seem minor to you, its a HUGE accomplishment for us. Especially when we have been told so many times we can't.
2) We can't work:
Again this ties in to the whole independence thing. Some of us work and some rely solely on government assistance and that's OK!
3) We don't get married and/or become parents: There are a lot of disabled people who are happily married and have kids. It might be a bit harder for them but I'm sure it helps to have a spouse who is involved.
4) We like to be called inspirational for everything: PLEASE don't call us inspirational for doing basic every day things. Save those compliments for when you see us handling a difficult situation well.
5) We only want to date other disabled people: Not the case. For a long time I never wanted to date a disabled man. I was afraid of people pitying me even more, because let's face it. Often you feel like you're on display with the stares you get.
There you have it. 5 myths you may not have thought about regarding disabled people. Got any more to add?
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